I was waiting on an elevator yesterday to take me up to the 15th floor for my normal lunch+research work routine where I overheard a conversation between a more than middle-aged man and a younger Asian woman. Both looked fantastically well to do.
In this conversation I was subjected to overhear the conversation whether I wanted to or not, and it turns out I actually didn't mind. The middle-aged man was playing the role of the wise mentor with the younger lady playing the role of the learner - well, she was at least nodding her head a lot and agreeing.
I couldn't gather much about the context as I only eavesdropped on the conversation for approximately 2 minutes, but it sounded like the woman was on a tough assignment at work, had a bad meeting, or was just discouraged for whatever reason. So the older man was off sharing the wisdom, trying to encourage her.
So as lame as this picture sounds painted, I heard something profound come out. The man began by trying to explain sports analogies and how sports can relate to everything in life. I've only heard that whole bit a million times from my football days, but he continued on talking about little kids playing sports. He said (paraphrased), "you know how the kids who are good in sports become good in sports? It's not by playing constantly, although it helps. It's by playing constantly and also playing with all of the older kids. You see when you play with the kids who are already bigger, faster, and stronger than you, it forces you to play that much harder and to focus that much more to even be on a level playing ground. But over time, your skill accelerates and you catch up to the older kids in skill and you will be miles ahead of your direct peers. The same is true in everyday life. If you want to get better, then play with the kids who already further ahead in the game than you".
There are so many parallels here for me, I 'd have trouble listing them all. For example everyday I walk in to work here feeling a bit overwhelmed by the talent and brains of those who work around me. But to put it in perspective, I can learn from them, learn how they think, what they study, how they approach problems etc. etc. And that thought, and I've had it several times before, keeps me going despite my own personal complexes of not being good enough. But now I have a great sports analogy to explain it by, relate to it, and share with others.